Merry Christmas from the Wesley Foundations
Greetings, 
This Advent and Christmas, we hope you will have a chance to reconnect with college students that might be home for the holidays. We have been blessed to connect with students through lunches and other meals, cups of coffee, studies, services projects, theological discussions, and fellowship opportunities. Today's college students are the future of the church. Please encourage and help them to find their home away from home at the Wesley Foundations while they are at college. Blessings to all of you.
 
University of Iowa - TalentShare at Christmas

Wesley's first "TalentShare" brought students together in December to share with each other their talents and gifts. Hannah Schlenker, student ministry intern, likened it to a talent show, but without the implied competition. Hannah arranged the TalentShare around Christmas time, connecting with the kings' gifts to the baby Jesus and bringing our gifts to God and each other. Students and staff shared original music and poetry. We heard pieces for flute, violin, and piano. One piece was a vocal duet about Mozart last performed in the fifth grade. One student conducted a hearing test from her area of study in speech and hearing. We lit candles, shared a Christmas prayer and sang carols. With the end of the semester we honored two graduating seniors anUI Wesley TalentShared shared a blessing. Wesley students send you greetings for Christmas and blessings in the new year!

 

 


University of Northern Iowa

Finals week, already? It's hard to believe that this semester is already coming to an end! So much has been going on this semester, it just flew right by! We've had Salsa Dancing nights, a camping trip, a Halloween party, and much more. After Thanksgiving break, some of us took a trip to watch the Black Hawk's hockey team in Waterloo. The next week we had our Holiday Party which consisted of a Chinese and Spanish food buffet, a White Elephant gift exchange, cookie decorating, and watching the UNI football game. 

UNI Wesley Holiday Party

 

 

 

 

 

The Wesley gang enjoyed a meal at the holiday party.

 

This week, we've had our Finals Week Breakfasts. Monday was pancakes, Tuesday was eggs and bacon, Wednesday was muffins, and Thursday is a buffet. Students come and enjoy a well-rounded breakfast to help them get through their exams and projects. 


We are looking forward to another great semester starting in January! We're hoping that everyone enjoys their breaks and have a very Merry Christmas!

 

 


Iowa State University - Advent Workshop

Each year at Collegiate United Methodist Church/Wesley Foundation there is an Advent Workshop. This is an opportunity for the young or the young at heart to create "masterpieces" that will be treasured for a lifetime. This year some Wesley Foundation students planned and coordinated something that made that event extra special. They invited the kids from the Emergency Residence Project (the local homeless shelter). Twelve kids join us and we had over 20 ISU students that helped with the event. Some students that had not participated in any Wesley Foundation activity before were even there. Each kid was paired with a college student buddy that was there to spend the afternoon with them, to help them with their masterpieces, and get to know them. Other students served as greeters, helped staff the craft tables, and staffed the refreshment table. At the end of the afternoon when it was time to take the kids home, a girl turned to the two buddies that had been helping her and gave each of them a hug. It was priceless. Later we found out that the kids had been talking about the Advent Workshop for days after the event. They had a great time and so did the college students. It was a meaningful experience that we hope to turn into a tradition.

 

 


A Simpler Life: Nurturing Heart, Mind, & Spirit Part 1

by Karla M. Kincannon 
 
What complicates your life? Family expectations, your own expectations, roommates? Papers, exams, junk mail, e-mail? Keeping up with the latest fashion can be a full-time job. Holidays, extracurricular activities, class schedules, work schedules, can fill any calendar to the brim. Worry, fear, and anxiety can make any situation seem 10 times worse. Many things complicate our lives. Juggling schedules and commitments and trying to find meaning in the midst of all the madness can push a person to the limit. 
 
Malik was at the end of his rope. Academically, it had been a hard semester; he needed a break. However, when he finished his last, grueling exam of the semester there was no sense of relief. Only three shopping days until Christmas and he had not yet begun to think about presents for his family or friends. The pressure was on.  
 
After a trip to the local mall, Malik was even more stressed. Holiday shoppers frantically grabbed up shiny gadgets and expensive clothing in hopes of crossing off another person from their shopping list. Christmas carols bellowed over loudspeakers as cranky children whined and tugged at their parents' pant legs. Shopping on a student's budget was no fun.  
 
Tired of being beaten out of parking spaces by aggressive drivers, tired of feeling frustrated by the long lines at the cash registers, and tired of feeling as if the meaning of Christmas had been strangled out of his life by stress, Malik got in his car and headed for a quiet place to sort things out.  
 
The campus ministry center at his school had always been a place where Malik could begin to reclaim a sense of peace and get some perspective on life. He wasn't disappointed. Walking in the door he saw a poster with a picture of Santa by the manger. The caption read, "Whose Birthday Is It Anyway?" The message hit home. He wanted to do something meaningful this Christmas, something that focused on God's love and not the commercialism the holiday had come to embody. 
 
In conversation with the campus minister, Malik found out about alternative, less materialistic ways of celebrating the birth of Christ. Instead of spending money on gifts people wouldn't use and didn't need, Malik decided to donate his hard-earned money to his family's favorite charity. He also decided to write each one of them a letter, telling them how important they are to him.  
 
For his friends, he made coupons they could redeem during the school year. The coupons had promises of services that Malik would render. He promised to wash his best friend's car, and cook a romantic dinner for his girlfriend. He offered to clean his roommate's side of the room for two weeks. He liked the idea of giving of himself much better than buying things nobody needed. This was going to be a good Christmas after all.