Work
at the Wesley Foundation constantly deals with transition: students
coming, maturing, and students going. We mark the major transitions
through ritual.
At
the end of each semester, students finish their course work and move on
to more school or to careers. Once in awhile, a student transitions to
reflection and reassessment and sticks around for a year or so after
graduation.
Our transition ritual of sending students out into the world includes many elements:
A worship blessing
At
the end of worship, the students who will be leaving the university and
the Wesley Foundation gather at the center of the worshipping
community. The rest of the community gathers around them and lays
hands on them. The community then sings the song "Sanctuary" to bless
and send them on their way. They change the lyrics of the song just a
touch for this moment:
Lord, prepare them to be a sanctuary pure and holy, tried
and true.
With thanksgiving, they'll be a living sanctuary for you.
Dessert Reception
Wesley
Foundation staff ask the students what they would like for a dessert,
and they seek to make that favorite desert for the students and to
share with the rest of the community following worship.
Questions and Gifts
With
desert and milk in hand, the community gathers once again for the
traditional asking of the five questions of each of the students
leaving:
What was your favorite class at the university?
What was your worst class at the university?
What is your favorite Iowa City hangout?
What has been your most meaningful memory of the Wesley Foundation?
When people ask what you're going to do after graduation, what do you really want to say to them...
The
answers given create laughter and sometimes tears. The answers also
help orient the newer students to life at the university.
After
the questions, each students is handed a certificate that says
something personal about them and their time with the Wesley
Foundation.
They
are also given a hand-crafted coffee mug with a logo of the Wesley
Foundation as a significant and beautiful reminder of this community.
Then Out into the World
The
students who come through the Wesley Foundation are ready to be leaders
in the church and the world. Many have made significant vocational and
life decisions while involved as university students in the Wesley
Foundation. When they come into your community, they are ready to
invest themselves and to help your church make a difference.

Brian Dellabetta December Graduate on the left.
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